Michael and Jaspenelle

The Shape of a Mother

While talking about postpartum bodies the other day another mother said:

“This belly button is 3 generations in the making: my mama gave it to me and my babies decorated it.”

That was enough to make me look at my postpartum body in a completely different light. I am not ugly, I don’t need to hide away until “ideal beauty” is reached again (as if that were even possible, or desirable.) Michael has been telling me daily that I am beautiful, inside and out. He is right, I am beautiful.

Carrying Damian has changed me forever, I am learning to love this change, after all I wouldn’t have him if not for it.

The Shape of a Mother

My belly may or make not shrink. I am at peace with that.
36-inches around and I have never felt more beautiful.
A number cannot define me, I will not give it that power.
Body, mind and soul I am balanced and I am healthy,
– waist size notwithstandingl
This body brought forth life.
What greater beauty is there then that?

I am the vessel from which life poured.
I am a mother.

These stretch marks will always be with me.
Commericals may tell me to laser them off,
– but I love them all.
My son has changed my soul forever, for the better.
My body too is changed forever, for the better.
These marks are my tattoo of motherhood.

I have crossed a threshold.
I am a mother.

My hips are bigger, my old jeans don’t fit.
These hips birthed my son, they are beautiful.

My breasts are bigger, they soak my shirts.
These breasts nourish my son, they are beautiful.

My heart and my soul are bigger, my emotions overflow.
This heart and this soul love my son, they are beautiful.

I am a mother.
I am strong.
I am beautiful.

I am a mother.

~ by Jaspenelle Stewart

I may submit this to The Shape of a Mother, not sure yet. Eitherway, check out the website and all the beautiful mamas who have contributed. I think we can all agree that the mainstream view of beauty has to change, we can begin this change within ourselves and the minds of our children.

Reflections

sparkling in sunlight
reflections dance on the pond
smiling at the shadows

Dear Daddy

Damian wrote this to me from within the womb (with Jaspenelle’s help of course)

Dear Daddy,

I feel your touch through Mommy’s belly and I know that,
  you are her strength when she feels weak,
  you are her smile when she wants to cry,
  you are her calm when her mind is the storm.

I can feel your love warm her heart.
It warms my heart too.

I can’t wait to meet you,
I can’t wait for you to hold me.
I know that,
  you will be my strength when I am weak,
  you will be my smile when I want to cry,
  you will be my calm when I am in the storm.

I love you Daddy, I love you so much.
I will be your strength and your smile and your calm too,
Whenever you need me, I will be here for you.

Your son,
Damian

That which is sacred.

This poem is based on a dream I had a few nights ago.

(Image from Space.com.)

Mother, I feel your light.
I am a moth, drawn towards it’s glow.
Burned to ash, I am swept away,
      so that my spirit may return.

Mother, I embrace you.
I lay resting in your crypt, your womb.
This body I give back for you to reuse,
      so that my spirit may return.

Mother, I drink from you.
In the chalice of eternity, I drown.
Deep within your waters a rhythm begins,
      so that my spirit may return.

Mother, I breathe you in.
The ecstasy of life fills my lungs.
Holy wings beat strong, bearing me forth,
      so that my spirit may return.

Mother, I am your light.
By Fire, Earth, Water and Wind, I live.
I am a sacred drop in the forces of All,
      my spirit has returned.

(There was a Delicate Cycnia Moth present in my dream.)

Samhain Ball

Come, come, with me on this dark dark night…
Crimson velvet, lush satin, creamy lace divine!
Move… Move with us, the shadows, across the star filled sky.

Those stars… lanterns of the coming days…
Here, to guide thy way.
Dance, dance, the night away… with me.

Masquerade! Welcome, and dance…
Flow with us, the Samhain ghosts;
Raise your long stemmed glasses in a toast.
Sweet libations to near and distant times.

Shed the layers, yet wear the masks.
Souls entranced. Come! Dance, dance…

The ocean tides, they call.
Waves, winds, howls, roars… Rising. They come.
Twirling around the standing stones. So wild, so old, so free!
From Tara we come, spiraling ever closer… We reach.
Dance, dance… Come with me, take a chance.

Winter pulls back Her silken veil and gazes.
A kiss, the quiet chill.
Elle danse avec toi… Danse avec moi.

Come one and all. Heed our call.
Dance, dance, the night away…
In this masquerade.

Poem: Frantic

This pen. This hand.

This paper. This mind.

These words that I scratch
            an attempt at a rhyme
            and the life they define.

This world. These people.

Through living. Through dying.

The trouble that comes
            through crying, through hurting,
            through holding, through helping,
            through smiling, through laughing.

This giving and taking.

This way that we’re walking.

This babel we’re talking.

The lies that we’re telling.

The emotions we’re quelling.

Another line that we’re selling.

This endless dwelling,
            Excelling?

                                    Rebelling.

(written by Jaspenelle and Michael Stewart)

Cleanse Me

Beating rain come down on me,
Wash away my tears.

Glowing rainbow come out for me
Bring a smile to my face.

Cool breeze pass through me,
Return my good cheer.

Mother Earth rise up into me,
Bless me with your embrace.

Inner spirit connect all to me,
Guide me through these fears.

- by Jaspenelle Stewart

Temptation of Thought

Did I ever post this? It is a poem I wrote quite awhile ago. Not art for sale or anything, just something I made while I was messing about on the computer. Poetry is the medicine of the soul

If you can’t tell, I really like that photograph.

Untitled part of my life

I was cleaning up my studio today and found my old journal - the one I kept before I was with Michael. The last entry in it was a poem written on Tuesday June 29th, 2004 - a few days before Michael and I decided to be together and see where it would go. Best choice of my life. The poem is here:

Untitled part of my life

Please note this poem does not reflect how I am not, perhaps not even how I was then. It is funny how distant two years ago seems.

Art Update

The piece I mentioned earlier.

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This is a cross stitch piece I made to hang for above Michael and my altar for Bealtaine. I do not claim the poem as my own since I was inspired by several poems in the making of this one. The aida fabric is really a paler yellow then since, it just seems to have scan a bit darker, I lightened it a little but didn’t want to modify it too much. Fabric doesn’t seem to scan too well.

It took me the better part of two twelve hour work days just to do the blue part of the border to give you an idea of how long this took, but I have a slow job so it is nice to have something time consuming on hand. This is the first piece I’ve done I completely designed myself (referencing another border pattern) and I am really happy with how it came out. I hope you like it.

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As for a general art announcement, to kind of following in the paw prints of WatergazerWolf here and using her recent dA journal entry as reference. Well I suppose these terms of use have always been there but I just want everyone to know about them officially.

You are free to use my art in non-commercial ways (unless otherwise noted on the piece). Save it on your computers, print it on whatever, use it for forum sigs, webpages, avatars etc. I am honoured when you like my art enough to use it for such. When it comes to my paintings, I ask (except for avatars where you have to crop the image most of the time) that you leave my work intact since I do sign them. A link to my page is always nice but not necessarily. If you are not sure about something, I am only a note or email away and I don’t bite often.

Sometime people ask me why I don’t watermark my work? The answer is simple, I don’t like to distract from the thing I worked so hard on, the art, by slapping a distracting glyph/text/image all over it. I want you to see the art, so look around a watermark. That said, all my paintings are signed in some way though my full signature is on the back of them.

That said, you cannot resell my art ever though. I want to make it very clear that I will use legal action if I need to. I ask you don’t claim my art as your own, but if you want to use any of my pieces for reference feel free. If you trace them, it’s tacky, but oh well.

Now that that is out of the way, I love when you commission me, I am an email or a note away for you to get a price list. I soon hope to be selling prints of my work outside of dA (as soon as I replace my printer or find a place that will do high quality prints.)

Anyhow, just wanted to let everyone know. Peace.